Ray W. Fink Jr. passed away on February 7, 2025, at Sussman House in Rockport, aine with his wife, Deborah, by his side holding his hand. Ray was born on February 18, 1950, in Charleston, West Virginia. He was always proud to say that he was from West by God Virginia.

Ray met Deborah 31 years ago in Cincinnati, Ohio when he sold her a car. They began dating shortly thereafter and were married two years later. They moved to Maine in 2002 and then moved to a suburb of Chicago for five years before returning to Maine in 2011. In 2014 they bought a log home on Coleman Pond and began their “life on the pond”. For ten years his happy place was out on his kayak fishing for bass and pickerel almost every day that the weather permitted. 

Ray was a strong man who could fix anything and loved renovating every home he and Deborah owned. He loved his family, fishing, traveling, and giving back to the community. He was usually a man of few words, but he was very funny and could always make people laugh. He loved his life in Maine with Deborah. One of the tributes that she received was from their nephew, Stephen, who wrote, “He always made me laugh! Such a funny guy. One of the funniest if I do say so myself. I also always admired you and his relationship.  You guys made it clear to me that no matter how long you’re married, you can ALWAYS be best friends. It was a great example for me to grow up seeing.”

Ray is survived by his wife, Deborah (Carver) Fink; children, Ryan Fink and Tierney Jasper, and his grandchildren: Max, Addison, Brooklynn, Chase, and Drew.  

Ray was predeceased by his parents, Ray and Lillian Fink. 

He is also survived by his two brothers and five sisters and their spouses; Deborah’s parents, sisters and their husbands, and brother; and many nieces and nephews, extended family members, and friends who all loved him.

Deborah would like to thank all the wonderful healthcare professionals who took care of Ray at Pen Bay Medical Center, Windward Gardens, and Sussman House. Unfortunately, Ray battled Alzheimer’s for the last few years, and over the last 3+ months, he received such compassionate care from everyone who took care of him.

Per Ray’s request, there will not be a funeral service. Deborah will celebrate Ray’s life with friends and family in the future.

In lieu of flowers, please donate in memory of Ray to a charity that touches your heart or to Sussman House, 40 Anchor Drive, Rockport, ME  04856. Memories and condolences may be shared at ripostafh.com.